What I Really Think!

That's my man, that is her husband.

2011-05-17T05:43:00.001-05:00

I am fascinated by so many women that CHASE married men, and I just wonder what is that keeps you chasing someone's man. I see this commonly and have noticed it for years. The most moronic thing is the mistress thinks once they break up the marriage, the guy is going to carry them away in a damn carriage and they will live happily every after. Bitch please! Now, I can say there may be some extenuating circumstances every now and again, as men often lie about their marriage status. I am not speaking on a woman who does not know the situation and falls in love, I mean the woman that chases a married man to no end? What makes you think that is OK and what makes a woman think that is a "good man", someone that did not respect their marriage and slept with you...is now a dreamboat? You think he is going to leave his wife and be faithful to you.Also, isn't it odd that you can call someone's husband your "man". Anyone carrying on a full blown relationship outside of a marriage - is not a man by far. Nor is the woman any better to be an active an knowing participant in such acts.

Maybe it is the excitement of getting caught or the fact that you feel like you have won the "prize". I have known many women that find having an affair with a married man tantalizing and basically just hot. I wonder do you think you deserve someone just for yourself or you just living for the moment?

Call it what you want you are a mistress, at the end of the day the wife carries the tittle, home, ring and your man at the end of the day. If you are ever in a situation and God forbid that man passes, you will be on the outside without a pot to piss in financially and may not be welcome at the funeral as the spouse most likely will be the one to plan and control it. If I was the wife I would cut your ass and have Pookie and them jump you at the funeral! LOL, that is how I roll.

Although, this sounds quite negative, I don't judge the persons but the situation they are allowing and opening themselves up to. Including diseases, because almost everyone I have encountered sleeps with married men UNPROTECTED- that is what really kills me. Why put yourself at risk? The dumb-ass assumption is 1. The wife is faithful, so no diseases there 2. The Man is only sleeping with me and his wife. Another killing part is when the mistress finds out she is not the only one and is pissed! Why are you mad? This shit is so whack and just lacks common sense

Top lines married men use

1. My wife just does not understand me.

2. She just does not want to have sex anymore.

3.She just does not get me, like you do.

4. I am just there for the kids.

5. She knows its over, so it's really not cheating.

6.Nobody has ever made me feel like you.

This list goes on and on, so if so you thought it was just you...no sweetie we have heard those lines before!

The Black Snob goes to Aldi's

2011-05-16T01:24:00.001-05:00

First of all, sorry for not blogging recently, but it has been crazy lately. Anyway, there is an Aldi's about 2 minutes away from me. I have never went in there before. The building looks out of place everything around is really new and it's a plain building and seems everything was simply built around it. Any other store would of done an update but not Aldi- first sign of the ghettoism.

OK, first I must say that someone told me a long time ago. Aldi's was Black owned. Ummm...no, Aldi's is a Germany based company. Yes, obviously some ghetto ass Germans. So, let's start from the beginning. I walk in and am expected to reserve a cart by putting in a quarter, well I have 2 dimes and a nickel...so no cart for me.Please its just a damn cart not a hotel room geez! Next as I look around its like someone unloaded the boxes and just stacks them on top of each other. Makes me feel like I am at Costco minus the name brands and Cafe. Also, I hate the fact that Cereal just says "Corn Flakes", instead of having their own private label that makes it seem not so damn generic. I mean allot goes into how you present your store and packaging to me. Having a nice design or atleast a private label would make Aldi's much more appealing.

I was glad to see they threw in some healthy options also, their fit and active I believe. They had options like turkey bacon, their version of a lean hot pocket, and some other choices. I did purchase some Turkey bacon which was OK, not worth the sacrifice for the 5 cents I saved off of Target's price and the Pepperoni Pizza Pocket was rank!! That tastes like dookie (as my 5 year old God daughter would say)! LOL

So, to be honest I was pleasantly surprised by the cleanliness of the store the vast selection of foods and the produce looks decent and I will admit the seafood section was quite nice. Some great deals on vegetables such as green peppers 3 for 99 cents! That is amazing. While this Black snob will not frequent Aldis I can see the value there, the setup with some minor changes and just a little more thought and innovation could make for a pleasant shopping experience. But for now it still rings Ghetto. I go to places for the ambiance and the experience, product selection, etc. If you strictly are looking for a bargain and nothing else matters go to Aldi's- you will be pleasantly surprised. But, the savings will only add up if you do majority of your shopping there. This does get the Ghetto stamp! POW.

Are you Snoop Doggy Dog, oh no your just a snooper!

2011-04-20T06:26:00.000-05:00

Women and men are notorious for rummaging through a cheating mates belongings and trying to find an answer to the question "Are you cheating?", but please believe men do the same thing! Why do we feel the the need to dig and prod for answers, when you know the truth. Truth is if you feel the need to look through someone's phone, computer, or belongings you do not completely trust that person or insecure as hell. Either way this relationship has a good chance of failing. The fascinating part of it all is AFTER you find out your mate is cheating and all hell breaks loose, than you stay with the person anyway!! What the hell was the point? So, now you know your suspicions are correct?

If you are going to snoop and want to validate your feelings that your mate is doing the horizontal Polka with another lover, have a damn plan to leave,counseling,etc. But to stay with the person and try to belittle them by bringing it up time and time again or constantly feeling the need to call their phone to "see what they are doing" is pointless. You will drive yourself crazy and even if your mate is not cheating again, you will drive them away. There is an old adage "If you are going to accuse me. I may as well do it.".

I also want to state I am not a cheater, nor have I ever cheated on a mate physically, maybe emotionally though- if we are going to be completely honest. However, I have been snooped on and had one person that I snooped on. Either way it is still not the wise thing to do. If you cannot trust the person- leave it alone!!

Boughetto! I may likey!!!

2011-04-11T10:03:00.004-05:00

Warning***The content in this particular article may be offensive to some, as it is not "politically" correct, but I do not give a damn! But, I warned you.***

Now, I need you to be very real with yourself for a minute, something is very nice about a mate that can dress well, scent is intoxicating, and knows how to treat you with the respect you command. Those are the basics, yes I said BASICS. So, now that is established my ideal mate captures all of that, but also likes to enjoy the finer things and willing to explore and try new fare, professional, witty, spiritual,stable,agile,passionate,giving, understanding,loving,easy-going, God-fearing,high-integrity, honest,intelligent,accepting,dorky, technology geek, political,loyalty, loves my son-dog, great in bed, family-oriented,supportive,loving, goofy, optimistic,positive, culturally diverse, and a hint of urban swag!
So, imagine Sex and the City and I will take Bigs, but I will take a few scenes from Denzel in Training Day and bam you have it, LMAO. Actually Bigs could handle his own he was a nonsense type of person and that is hot as hell-actually he is well rounded to me, Denzel in Training day would get your ass killed, that is too much , yet was a little sexy at the same time. I am not going to lie on mine!I have been out with someone that was a total wimp before, this is not a race thing either! This was a wimpy ass Black man- just for the record- they are not all same! (Everyone that reads this will not know this-duh).

So the overly macho , urbaniness, or what some may call "ghetto" is not dependent on color at all. I just want someone that can handle themselves under ANY situation and not be intimidated by another person regardless of their race, class,etc. Now, you do have to be a diverse individual to be able to do this and do it well. Also, well cultured as I like to two-step and Salsa. Don't be scared because my cousin stays by Happy Foods and yes we have to go get her son AFTER dark. It goes on and on... Until we meet...

Love you already,

The Black Snob

Glen Who??

2011-04-08T06:22:00.000-05:00

First, I must say I was ecstatic when I heard about the news of Glenn's departure. Some people say he quit, some say he was fired, either way I do not give a damn as long as he is out!! First off Fox news, which by the way is the MOST watched cable network in America for 9 years strong...(as far right as they seem) allot of American's do follow this station. But, no worries Glenn Beck has loss 21% of his viewers, along with Bill O"Reilly(14% loss), and Sean Hannity(19% loss) from this time last year. Also, while losing support from over 400 advertisers, I think it is safe to say your ass was canned!!!

Glen Beck reminds me of your one crazy ass friend that always says and does something totally off the wall and you find it humorous at first, but then the one last antic just goes too far. In celebration of the big day let's look at Glenn's 10 dumbest quotes!

1. "This president I think has exposed himself over and over again as a guy who has a deep-seated hatred for white people or the white culture....I'm not saying he doesn't like white people, I'm saying he has a problem. This guy is, I believe, a racist." –on President Obama, sparking an advertiser exodus from his FOX News show, July 28, 2009 (Source)

2. "I'm thinking about killing Michael Moore, and I'm wondering if I could kill him myself, or if I would need to hire somebody to do it. ... No, I think I could. I think he could be looking me in the eye, you know, and I could just be choking the life out. Is this wrong? I stopped wearing my What Would Jesus -- band -- Do, and I've lost all sense of right and wrong now. I used to be able to say, 'Yeah, I'd kill Michael Moore,' and then I'd see the little band: What Would Jesus Do? And then I'd realize, 'Oh, you wouldn't kill Michael Moore. Or at least you wouldn't choke him to death.' And you know, well, I'm not sure." –responding to the question "What would people do for $50 million?", "The Glenn Beck Program," May 17, 2005 (Source)

3. "When I see a 9/11 victim family on television, or whatever, I'm just like, 'Oh shut up' I'm so sick of them because they're always complaining." –"The Glenn Beck Program," Sept. 9, 2005 (Source)

4. "The only [Katrina victims] we're seeing on television are the scumbags." –"The Glenn Beck Program," Sept. 9, 2005 (Source)

5. "I think there is a handful of people who hate America. Unfortunately for them, a lot of them are losing their homes in a forest fire today." –on why people who lost their homes in forest fires in California had it coming, "The Glenn Beck Program," Oct. 22, 2007 (Source)

6. "I have been nervous about this interview with you because what I feel like saying is, 'Sir, prove to me that you are not working with our enemies. ... And I know you're not. I'm not accusing you of being an enemy, but that's the way I feel, and I think a lot of Americans will feel that way." –interviewing Rep. Keith Ellison (D-MN), the first Muslim U.S. congressman, Glen Beck's show on CNN's Headline News, Nov. 14, 2006 (Source)

7. "Al Gore's not going to be rounding up Jews and exterminating them. It is the same tactic, however. The goal is different. The goal is globalization...And you must silence all dissenting voices. That's what Hitler did. That's what Al Gore, the U.N., and everybody on the global warming bandwagon [are doing]." –"The Glenn Beck Program," May 1, 2007 (Source)

8. "So here you have Barack Obama going in and spending the money on embryonic stem cell research. ... Eugenics. In case you don't know what Eugenics led us to: the Final Solution. A master race! A perfect person. ... The stuff that we are facing is absolutely frightening." –"The Glenn Beck Program," March 9, 2009 (Source)

9. "You have the artwork of Mussolini there, here in New York at Rockefeller Plaza." –analyzing the artwork decorating Rockefeller Plaza, which he said contained a hammer and sickle, Glenn Beck show on FOX News Channel, Sept. 2, 2009 (Source)

10. "O-L-I-G-A-R-H-Y." –misspelling "oligarchy" on his chalk board while claiming he had deciphered a secret code that he said was proof President Obama was trying to create an "Oligarhy," Aug. 27, 2009, Glenn Beck show o

So what, the President is Black!!

2011-03-31T07:30:00.000-05:00

What I hear frequently now is President Obama is not doing enough for Black people. First of of all our President is the President of the United States of America - not just to serve Black people who happen to make up about 11% of the population. If you want to make a real difference in the Black communities get your ass out there and work form the ground up through the community. No law is going to change hate, racism, inferior education, and marginalization of any group of people. It is unfair and unreasonable to think you have a Black President and the world is going to change! You have to be the vehicle for the change that you speak of. All of the people I hear with the toughest criticisms do not get out in the community to help, and have no idea what actually works. They think the President can sign a bill and change the world. Sit down, get educated on politics, get out and do some work for the change you think should happen, next shut the fuck up.

Give me one FAT HO and a side of FRIES please??

2011-03-24T23:32:00.001-05:00

This is one of the craziest things I have ever seen, it is in Waco, Tx and they created a burger joint called "Fat Ho". It does not stop there you can get you a Bad ass Ho, Sloppy Ho, Tiny Ho(meal for the kids),Super Duper Fly Ho w/cheese. Its a young Black woman, that recently put herself through college and opened a business. Education or not this is one of the most ignorant things I have ever heard of. Yes, I giggled, but at the same time it makes me say WTF are you thinking? What a way to represent!

More about Elizabeth Taylor R.I.P.

2011-03-24T01:54:00.000-05:00

First I LOVE Elizabeth Taylor, I thought her beauty was timeless and she was a more classic beauty than Marilyn Monroe and definitely had more depth. That is not a knock out Marilyn Monroe as I loved her also she took sexiness to a new level and made women feel empowered by their bodies instead of ashamed or degenerated by being sexy. Many Kudos! At any rate this is about Elizabeth.

RIP Elizabeth Taylor, a great actress and a great beauty, who's formidable contributions to both film and charity will always be remembered.

1. Elizabeth Taylor hates being called Liz because she said it sounded like a hiss.

2.Elizabeth's Taylor Jewish name is Elisheba Rachel.

3.She was the first actor (male or female ) to earn $1,000,000 dollars for role in Cleopatra in 1963

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4. She spoke Maggie's first word "Daddy" on the Simpsons.

5.Michael Jackson and Liz were really the closest of friends, she had her 1992 marriage in Neverland Ranch, gave him a ton of exotic gifts for his home and she was Godmother to Prince and Prince Michael , 2 of Michael's children.

6. Richard Burton give her this 69.5 Carat stone which she eventually put on a necklace and later auctioned for charity and gave to the funds to the Aids foundation.

7. She was a huge Aids activist and humanitarian. When it was unpopular and nobody wanted to be associated with the disease. She was courageous and unfaltering. She personally designed and took pieces to the annual Aids silent auction, instead of having a personal assistant etc. drop them off.

Elizabeth Taylor passes at 79.

2011-03-23T08:14:00.000-05:00

It has been confirmed that the legendary Diva,business woman, and fearless activist Elizabeth Taylor aka "Violet Eyes" has passed at 79 of congestive heart failure. This is not a rumor and has been confirmed.

SHHH!!!

2011-03-23T04:28:00.001-05:00

I have noticed some people do not know when to shut the hell up. One of the key ingredients to a good friend, lover, and even just a well-rounded human being is knowing when to be quiet. There is nothing worst than someone that feels they need to constantly berate others even if there is some truth to what you are saying. What makes you think that you constantly need to point out what you see as a flaw in someone? It goes back to "you did not get enough hugs as an child?"...lol. It is something inside of some people that makes them feel inferior and I believe pointing out someones flaws make them feel a little better about themselves. Its like saying to themselves " I am really not that bad, look at this person." Fact is you are still the same person with the same flaws at the end of the day.

Before you speak on anything here is the formula to know if you are a NEGATIVE person. Speaking on TRUTH (or what you think is true) is not enough. Majority Rules and you must hit 2/3 before you speak. The formula is 1.TRUTH 2. KIND 3.NECESSITY. Now if majority of the time you speaking truth with no kindness or no helpfulness. You may want to look at yourself as you easily pick apart other peoples flaws. I can bet people are tired of hearing you speak!

Stay True

2011-03-19T02:44:00.000-05:00

I must admit sometimes I have found myself acting out of character to match someone's stupidity. We all know about being loyal to friends and family, but what about self? When you allow another to change who you are because you refuse to let them disrespect, marginalize you in some sense you are cheating on yourself...with yourself. Often we compromise our own integrity to get on another person's level that we recognize as petty, childish or just down right stupid. We know the shit is beneath us, but before we know it we are berating another person to let them know they will not treat us this way- we have matched them blow for blow. Then later we have the audacity to sit high on our throne and talk about how ignorant and petty another person is while cloaking ourselves as victims. No matter who started it if you are matching someone on their heinous deeds you are no better. That is why I say no Grudges but let those people go...don't let anybody change you. Don't be a drag just be a queen. LOL

R.I.P. Nate Dog- West Coast Rap Legend

2011-03-16T07:33:00.000-05:00

Nathaniel Hale aka Nate Dog as reportedly passed on March 15,2011, although no official report have been released. Nate Dog has had allot of health issues over the last couple of years including suffering from 2 massive strokes (one in 2007 and the second in 2008). The second stroke actually left him paralyzed on his left side and he was in physical therapy trying to regain some normalcy.

While we are familiar with the hit :"Regulator", Nate Dog actually released 4 other albums also while collaborating on over 40 other hit records. Another great artist gone...R.I.P. Nate Dog

What time is it love? You are late!

2011-03-16T04:56:00.002-05:00

People often search for love and we try to make Mr./Ms. Wrong into Mr./Ms Right. Love is NOT on a schedule, just because you're tired of being lonely that whoever you run across next is "the one". I have seen women treat men like an old car, but you can't make a hooptie into a new model. When you say things like "he has potential", you are really saying he/she has the potential to be shaped into the person I want them to be. It does not work! There is nothing you can do to change a person that is not ready to change. So, all of that hard work you are putting into a car that did not suit your fancy because you just want to "ride" something (LMAO) in the end it's going to break down anyway. Even if you fix it up its still the same damn car!

Love is like me, never on time but it comes at the right moment, In the meantime enjoy your life, family, friends and you may want to get some rechargeable batteries and a massaging shower head. LOL

Welcome

2011-03-14T20:00:00.000-05:00

Welcome.. This blog is really not about being a snob in the sense of looking down on others. Personally, I hear comments like you talk "White" or "who do you think you are". I have learned some people - actually lots of people cannot accept or intimidated by things they do not understand. That can be someone that practices a different religion, or has a different cultural background or even skin color. There is a stereotype that a Black person must talk, act, and think a certain way. Let's see politically we are all liberals, all Black men are well endowed(LMAO), love chicken, can all dance, and have a certain slang. Fact, not all Black men are hung, I like chicken but I prefer baked, I am really clueless on allot of the slang...you get my drift. People are People damn it! No matter their color. I am not going to let anyone define my blackness or who I am. Someone sent me something about a Black Snob and now that's my mantra:) Black, White, Mexican, Asian, Gay, Straight...I love all my Snobs!! Smooches xoxo